A theory of friends

Its been a while hasnt it
since i last posted a thing
well i wan lazy seriously
didnt really came across me to
write down anything at all
with all the exams and study
that hurles in my way
all i can say is haizz

but recently
i have been back to some of my
old and weird ways of observing people
yeah some could say i back to my
pit of darkness where nothing really
reaches me anymore

well this time
i was observing on how friends drift apart
how often have u feel
that the presence of your friend
is no longer desireable.....
in fact one might come to the point and say
the presence is an utter nuiscance and
you would be better of without hearing his load
anoying and familiar voice ever again

well i felt it alot recently to be honest
i just dont feel as friendly i used to
maby because i am as anoying as usual
as loud as one may be
and as noisy as one could get
well i might be over doing it to some
or under doing to afew
but that is for u to dicide
i am here to share my theory on drifting friends

Well lets get straight to the point
after awhile of observation
i came across a constant
which is something like

friends start to drift apart especially when they
were to end up in the same class
with the condition the friendship
was made outside the class......................

some of u might be saying WTF you kapsiau tang about
well this is base on my experience and afew others
when a friendship is made outside of a class
or to be more specific in a open area
one befriends another without
fully knowing the true characteristic of the person
due to the restraint of society and image control

however once they were to meet in the same class room
for one full year....everything starts to change
WHY.................
well simply because
they get too much of u
when they dont even know anything bout you
they start to see yout true character
because in school especially at secondary
we tend to be all we want to be
and live wad we want to live
so i have to admit
we all do get a little anoying at some part of our life
at that point even the closest of friends
will start to drift away

well it comes to no suprise to me tought
however
a perculiar thing is
if the friendship was made in the class
the opposite USUALLY wont occur
in fact if they were to change class
and then get back together
their bonds will only grow stronger
however drifted friends will just go further
as they said
broken chain can be mended but it will never
be as strong as before....

well it all goes to show
moderation is key
haha

Just A tought

Well
it was friday nite
after i finish my temple duty
me and my family went to a family reunion
sumwhere near the jetty
my mom keep saying "chun thau"
which literally means ship head....god knows
what does dat mean

Anyway
while eating with my siblings
my eyes stop hold on one of my siblings
to be more exact
my youngest uncle's 1st born...a girl
NO my eyes didnt not got hold on her
becos i am a pervert nor a pedophile ok
well she was sooo small
and well all the food was like the other side
of the table which in her sense would be
the other side of the world....

being born in this world
do u decide ur own fate
or let SOMEONE control yours
do you sit around waiting for whats to come
or do u go out get what u want

these were well part of the questions that arise
why u ask
well not only was she unable to take anything
she was too shy to ask......
back to square on

Do you DECIDE what you want
or do u wait and let sumone control the
food u have on ur plate

Do you sit around and wait to be serve what
is rightfully yours
or do you stand up and brave to ask for
the dishes across the table

well i never came up with an answer
i guess i dont know what i want haha
but all goes the old hokkien proverb
paiseh chiak ka keee
which directly transalated means
if ur shy then eat yourself
haha

till next time
(if u were wondering how she did got her food
well my dad ask me to SERVE HER ok)