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Friday, May 22, 2009

A theory of friends

Its been a while hasnt it
since i last posted a thing
well i wan lazy seriously
didnt really came across me to
write down anything at all
with all the exams and study
that hurles in my way
all i can say is haizz

but recently
i have been back to some of my
old and weird ways of observing people
yeah some could say i back to my
pit of darkness where nothing really
reaches me anymore

well this time
i was observing on how friends drift apart
how often have u feel
that the presence of your friend
is no longer desireable.....
in fact one might come to the point and say
the presence is an utter nuiscance and
you would be better of without hearing his load
anoying and familiar voice ever again

well i felt it alot recently to be honest
i just dont feel as friendly i used to
maby because i am as anoying as usual
as loud as one may be
and as noisy as one could get
well i might be over doing it to some
or under doing to afew
but that is for u to dicide
i am here to share my theory on drifting friends

Well lets get straight to the point
after awhile of observation
i came across a constant
which is something like

friends start to drift apart especially when they
were to end up in the same class
with the condition the friendship
was made outside the class......................

some of u might be saying WTF you kapsiau tang about
well this is base on my experience and afew others
when a friendship is made outside of a class
or to be more specific in a open area
one befriends another without
fully knowing the true characteristic of the person
due to the restraint of society and image control

however once they were to meet in the same class room
for one full year....everything starts to change
WHY.................
well simply because
they get too much of u
when they dont even know anything bout you
they start to see yout true character
because in school especially at secondary
we tend to be all we want to be
and live wad we want to live
so i have to admit
we all do get a little anoying at some part of our life
at that point even the closest of friends
will start to drift away

well it comes to no suprise to me tought
however
a perculiar thing is
if the friendship was made in the class
the opposite USUALLY wont occur
in fact if they were to change class
and then get back together
their bonds will only grow stronger
however drifted friends will just go further
as they said
broken chain can be mended but it will never
be as strong as before....

well it all goes to show
moderation is key
haha





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