Craving leads to suffering

Well this subject have been in my head for a while now
Most prob cos i have been in the temple too much
But well as usual i dont blame it haha
Well anyway back to the subject

CRAVING LEADS TO SUFFERING

Well i guess the title says almost everything,
The more we crave for the more we will suffer
The more we own the more we stand to lose
This in fact is quite true if you ask me
Let me give you an example

Because mat wants to be the troop leader of the particular troop
so he works hard on the goal
Dreaming one day
He will stand in the centre of the horseshoe
Everybody will clap for him
and so on

BUT!!

when dat day came
Instead of hearing his name being anouce
It was Dan who got called out
Because dam more pandai angkat bola (apple polish) the senior

What you think mat will feel??
He will be devastated for sure
Imagine 4 years of work just to find out
He didnt even got selected to be the TL
Pityful..
However this implies for everything
Including money,Objects,.....girls (4 guys)......guys (4 girls/I aint gay!!)....friends
and so on

We all have to come and understand
The nature of things
The nature of this states that
things will come and go
We all know by studying science
that no gas atoms stay in once place all the time
it moves here and there
Things will come and things will go
People are born and people will also die
All good things must come to and end
So well....
The best advise "I THINK" anybody can come up with is

"Dont get too attach"

Easier said then done i presume
Well its always okay to be attacth to something
But well.....
We should try not to get attach to it soo much
especially to friends
because.....
Its the ones that are closest to us
that will be able to stab us
and give us
The hardest and deepest wounds
which will kill us...